Sunday, December 23, 2012

Fashions ... and other stuff

As you may or may not know I get most of my feminine dressing ideas from looking at real women but not all the outfits I see, to me anyway, would be wonderfully successful.

My latest idea comes from the Weather Channel.  The weather girl wore a simple black and white dress that could be made into a very now and seasonal outfit quite easily!  T-girl admirers would say it looks absolutely fantastic on most T-girls.  I would of course be flattered to hear them say that to me, those words would make any outfit appropriate.

I make outfits seasonally timely by simply adding trim, I buy a similar pattern but make the outfits more festive.  I will add red and green trim using my sewing machine to this outfit and I think I'll look like an ornament!  My gift has always been my legs and T-girl admirers enjoy looking at them and more, so I also shorten the hemlines.  I'm sure my outfits are equally appropriate for day-wear despite that fact.

I also read this on Yahoo, it comes from the ABC News Blogs;
Dental Assistant Fired For Being 'Irresistible', by Alyssa Newcomb, ABC News Blogs

Here's the link in case you're interested;

I found it most striking and disturbing that this decision was upheld by the court system!  Their decision merely confirms that men can do whatever they want with a woman.  Those acts, however, do not just happen in the work place or with genetic women!  They happen in private places to weaker men as well, I speak from experience.  Now I let men do what they want with me, I'm told I'm asking for it! 

Who knows?  Maybe I am!  But maybe I just learned to accept that I'm different!  I mean, what else is a gay man who happens to enjoy wearing frilly intimates like a woman under his man-drab supposed to do?  It's really a rhetorical question.

But on a more serious note, I sincerely hope you and yours have a very Merry Christmas and a glorious, safe, and happy New Year!


Friday, December 21, 2012

T-girls and makeup

Certain T-girls seek out admirers for sex, I'm one and I know it.  I know I'm gay and I know I have a strong desire to have sex with a man, cross dressing merely helps me.  I also know I need all the help I can get, so, I rely on plenty of makeup and dressing very provocatively.

Anyone, T-girls included, can look absolutely beautiful just by taking proper care of their skin.  I'm  proof.  My advice is that T-girls should go lightly on the Sun exposure and be sure to use great moisturizers!  Healthy skin is simply the most beautiful skin there is.  Of course you know you're beautiful just the way you are but with these two simple tips in mind, you're even more ready to go!

A girl's mother also tells her daughter (GG) the same thing, she is beautiful just the way she is, but for a T-girl it seems to come only from a more distant relative or an unknown admirer.  I guess separation apparently has its value.  I can still remember things that were said to me as a gay boy as I bloomed into a transvestite in San Francisco.  My aunts and I put lots of weight into what was said about me by my own Mother.  Bless her.

At the risk of coming across as shallow, Snookie, of Jersey Shore fame, twitted she was not wearing makeup one day.  I have to admit the first thought in my mind was "who cares"?  I know I didn't!  The idea of T-girls being interested is not so surprising to me, especially when it's a look at a biological and genetic woman.  We T-girls are particularly driven to make comparisons between ourselves and real women all the time, and I, as just one type of T-girl, would absolutely hate to come up short when viewed by a perspective or potential admirer.

IMHO, a little too much makeup makes a T-girl like me shout she's available.  While playing dress up is fine it's only one part of the total image, actions also play a huge roll and so does makeup!  All "real life" T-girls aren't usually bad about wearing makeup, they do just fine for the most part.  Wearing "too much" simply has the up-side of free advertising as far as I'm concerned!

All GGs and real women go through this phase as well, and I bet some guys do, too, although that may be to a lesser extent.  I remember going through it as I  learned I was a femme gay and began wearing female clothes.  I no longer suffer this phase, I know what I am.

As far back as high school I used to have to have makeup on every single day or I would simply not go to school.  I have one memory that stands out in my mind in particular, I started out going to school but had to turn back.  I suddenly realized I had completely forgotten to put on any makeup!  I was actually shocked.  As I look back now, I ask myself what in the world was I thinking or, more importantly, was I thinking at all?

Why was it so important for me to be wearing makeup?  Who would care?  The answer of course was a certain group of boys and ME!  I realize the boys were just another part of my femme growing pains but they're ones I really learned the most from, I needed them to grow.

Snookie has beautifully soulful brown eyes (like me) but for me to achieve the same kind of eyes I need layers of gunk and false eyelashes.  Add to that all kinds of beard cover bronzer and I get that "natural" pretty coppery look!  I know I'm a "fake" woman rather than a natural, after all, I am a fake woman rather than a natural one.

But what if all adults told T-girls we were beautiful just the way we are?  Well, I say why not just tell us that!  Say it often enough and we will believe you!  Most T-girls will even thank you for it.   Maybe then as T-girls we would also be quick to embrace the strange idea of being a real girl!  But this society is not going to do that any time soon.

Getting back to reality, one tip I wish to share with every T-girl is that if you plan to travel, say to a hotel or motel, a well organized makeup kit will be your best companion.  A simple, well stocked case can be used and easily carried into any location for that special event.  You may even add super-value!

I strongly feel the need to say, read, read, read!  Test all brands for everything.  I've read someplace you should also have a few face charts to write down what makeup you use for a reference.  I recommend you also take plenty of  facial pictures to compliment those references.  Remember, don't be intimidated into thinking you need to merely have products from big makeup companies only, make your choices then use what you've learned.  Try to keep your makeup fresh and keep on learning!

Beauty is NOT so natural for even a real women but we all know it is glamorous, it's usually uplifting, and might just make the difference!  Make-overs can also be life changing experiences for most.  I hope you've gotten some ideas by reading these recommendations.  I want to close by saying every T-girl is beautiful just the way she is.

Please let me know what you think of my writing.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

As I put on my day-dress

It's becoming very accepted to express personal sexual preferences these days.  As you may or may not know my preferences include wearing a dress and makeup then allowing myself to get picked up so I can behave very naughty while being very NSA for very vulgar and demanding men .. without question!  I'm sure that's just my need to be humiliated coming through.

Doing the "dirty deed" in private seems to workout best for everyone and, in order to remove any and all doubts about me, I confirm I'm a male to female cross dresser who is firmly a bottom gay homosexual.  I tell every potential "date" those facts well before we actually "do it".  I think that removes all doubts.

My close friends, despite the way I approach the issue, all tell me I have low morals and zero self-respect.  I happen to think my morals are exactly correct and my compass is precisely where it ought to be.  After all, I AM a cross dressing gay man and I simply "do it" for all other interested men regardless of their race, religion or endowment.  I do not discriminate and while I'm hoping for another LTR, I also do not wish to digress.

Most of my days (as opposed to my nights) are consumed by reading books, magazines, and periodicals.  I especially enjoy T-articles.  Wonder why that is, LOL!  I also like to think of myself as a writer.  I enjoy "personals" from all sides of the gender issue and I get most of my writing ideas through those same personals.  What I've noticed, however, is that a large and notable segment of women-looking-for-men (ISO) have what I can only call an impossible specification list about what a female expects from a guy.  While this "list of requirements" rarely makes me laugh out loud, it does make me smile.  I simply wonder how a man can possibly meet all the obligations put on him by a woman who is a stranger to him?

I also wonder if these women bother to ask themselves before posting;  Do they really want a nice guy?  Might they be locked into a fantasy, ergo the wish list?  Do they want a guy with a gigantic cock who is also a heavy cumer?  And do they want him forever?

I know I would absolutely love a man fitting that last description!  Ouch!

IMHO, these demands show me a kind of rigidity and a tendency to lack any compromise.  This happens during face to face meetings as well and almost always spells defeat.  It's exactly the same for my selective T-girl friends.  It is because of these unrealistic demands that most T-girls do not get a response from an honest, good, or decent guy in the first place.  I mean just imagine, what "other" thing could a "good" man possibly want from a female?  Care to venture a guess?

The likelihood of EVER getting a serious response from an honest, good, or decent guy is pretty slim.  That's because the guy might feel he's gonna come up short, or he has other issues like being married with children.  He simply moves on to the next available piece because he still wants to get off!  This single, specifically-specified, relationship is doomed to fail from the get-go unless it follows the purpose of the commonly accepted hook-up but that's not likely.

As an FYI, an LTR seems more likely in today's society so long as it's kept private.  I do not kiss and tell and do not recommend anyone else to either!

It's been my experience that most GG's, along with a few T-girl friends of mine, constantly re-define what they expect from a man.  For his part, the guy ends up thinking he is expected to constantly guess what those expectations were.  Many types of woman never stop re-defining their expectations or changing their old ones to be far different from what they originally defined them to be!  The result:  the man, doing the best and right thing, ends up with a ball and chain which lasts as long as he allows it.  Until he eventually gets fed-up with her and goes elsewhere, he feels both obligated and stuck.

That stuck-ness is my cue, that's where I fit in!  I'm cheaply adorned and he has singled me out for a meaningless moment of sexual release.  I can accept that.  As a side note, however, perhaps he has something against his wife, ergo, his sex may be kinda violent in its own way, so I need to accept that as well.  If the shoe fits, wear it!  I do!  I merely accommodate him.

I have no intention to offend anyone by writing this, I simply found an article on-line and reflected on it as I put on my dress and poured my morning coffee.


Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Sandy Hook elementary school

The shooting and massacre of the people in Sandy Hook was terrible.  My heartfelt sympathies go out to all the families affected.

While I cried like a baby when I heard the horrible news, this raised many questions in my mind but my main question remains, Why did Adam Lanza do this?

It has been reported he was a smart guy!  Was he somehow convinced December 21, 2012, was the end of the world and he was merely "saving" the children?  Or, was he just another loony who got his hands on a few guns?  We'll probably never know the truth, he's dead.

It matters little what one thinks of him because the gun debates are getting into full swing in DC and other cities while gun sales have spiked all across this country because of the potential to dis-arm citizens.  I find that fact not only interesting but very telling!  You can read about this activity via most search engines. 

Its been said, To ignore a fact does not change it.

I fear Sandy Hook is simply a horrendous tragedy which will be repeated in many cities throughout this nation.  I know, I'm pessimistic.  In my opinion, however, it's far beyond, and a bit too late, to regulate or legislate.  Sadly, I think we're no closer to seeing the end of this and it is but one indicator of our society.

Again, all I can offer is my sympathies.  I am soooo sorry!