I haven't put anything on-line in a few days so here's one of my latest thoughts!
As a T-girl I'm judged by my singular moments many times and I'm well aware I'm also in a kind of deception mode. I can easily tell the guy likes me but when he's finished and has to leave I fully understand why he doesn't wish to take me shopping! In a single word, polite and civil society simply won't tolerate that!
OK, maybe that was more than just a single word.
Anyway, I feel that view is extremely flawed but very real! Call me a deftest but I also doubt that view will change within my life time.
Still, I'll keep being me!