Friday, November 11, 2011
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Just keeping it real . . . .
To begin with I'd like to say I'm a firm believer that gays (of all stripes) are born, not made!
As I read another blog I was reminded that my dad was a hunter and so were all of my uncles. They would often take my brother and male cousin but I was never invited. It's as if they knew that stalking, hunting and killing would not be my cup-of-tea. I watched them pack up the car with equipment and leave for one hunting or fishing trip or another. Knowing I was being left behind I would quietly cry from my bedroom window.
For some reason, probably the "quiet" and latent queer in me, I was soon OK staying behind. My mother would ask me to help her with the housework and I even got some kind of joy from doing the laundry, ironing, dusting, and vacuuming. She took me under her wing and taught me how to cook and bake and sew and I took every opportunity to learn about her underwear. She told me lots. I was easily hooked on all the materials, the smells, the tactile sensations, the belts, the buckles, and the buttons. Very easily.
I played sports in junior high and was very good at them! I was one of those kids who could climb the rope in gym class at lightening speed and I loved the peg-board. I was good at baseball, basketball, and football and could do my fair share of pull-ups and push-ups. At a huge surprise to my gym teachers, they actually seemed shocked, I gravitated to the less demanding sport of running cross country. I liked it! I also watched sports on TV but did not have an interest in fashion magazines or soap operas!
All that soon changed.
I had one older sister (she was a real whore!) who always told me about her many boy-friends and what they did. I always became excited and wanted her life-style as my own. I felt it was my true and natural place.
As time went on, although I didn't dress femme externally, I spent most of my time in female undies and behaving like a very naughty girl. When I was in grade school, it was confirmed by plenty of boys that I was a real-life cock-sucking queer! I gave up lots of head to them just because they asked! For some strange reason doing that felt very right.
It still does!
As I read another blog I was reminded that my dad was a hunter and so were all of my uncles. They would often take my brother and male cousin but I was never invited. It's as if they knew that stalking, hunting and killing would not be my cup-of-tea. I watched them pack up the car with equipment and leave for one hunting or fishing trip or another. Knowing I was being left behind I would quietly cry from my bedroom window.
For some reason, probably the "quiet" and latent queer in me, I was soon OK staying behind. My mother would ask me to help her with the housework and I even got some kind of joy from doing the laundry, ironing, dusting, and vacuuming. She took me under her wing and taught me how to cook and bake and sew and I took every opportunity to learn about her underwear. She told me lots. I was easily hooked on all the materials, the smells, the tactile sensations, the belts, the buckles, and the buttons. Very easily.
I played sports in junior high and was very good at them! I was one of those kids who could climb the rope in gym class at lightening speed and I loved the peg-board. I was good at baseball, basketball, and football and could do my fair share of pull-ups and push-ups. At a huge surprise to my gym teachers, they actually seemed shocked, I gravitated to the less demanding sport of running cross country. I liked it! I also watched sports on TV but did not have an interest in fashion magazines or soap operas!
All that soon changed.
I had one older sister (she was a real whore!) who always told me about her many boy-friends and what they did. I always became excited and wanted her life-style as my own. I felt it was my true and natural place.
As time went on, although I didn't dress femme externally, I spent most of my time in female undies and behaving like a very naughty girl. When I was in grade school, it was confirmed by plenty of boys that I was a real-life cock-sucking queer! I gave up lots of head to them just because they asked! For some strange reason doing that felt very right.
It still does!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
This is a good read!
In an unusual scientific about-face, researchers at Northwestern University have found evidence that at least some men who identify themselves as bisexual are, in fact, sexually aroused by both women and men.
Some men. Interesting.
This finding is not likely to surprise the many bisexuals (both male and female) who have long asserted that their attraction is not limited to one sex specifically. In 2005, Northwestern released a report “with respect to sexual arousal and attraction" and said, "it remains to be demonstrated (proven) that male bisexuality actually exists.”
And to think we paid for this!
Their conclusions simply outraged the many bisexual men and women who said the report appeared to support a stereotype of bisexuality as closeted homosexuality.
So, in advancement of the facts, I'm guessing this protest by bisexuals brings to light they have notions regarding closet homosexuals and they're thought of as lowly.
Kind of like civil society in general.
In the new study, however, things would be different. They required participants to have a sexual experience with at least two people of each sex and a romantic relationship of at least three months with at least one person of each sex.
They weren't asking for too much, were they?
Both studies found that bisexuals reported subjective arousal to both sexes, and had the genital responses to match.
“Someone who is bisexual might say, ‘Well, duh!’” said Allen Rosenthal, the lead author of the new Northwestern study and a doctoral student in psychology at the university. “But this will be validating to a lot of bisexual men who had heard about the earlier work and felt that scientists were just not getting them.”
The Northwestern study is the second such study published this year to report a distinctive pattern of sexual arousal among bisexual men, again, to think we paid for this just makes me angry! What I'd like to know is where are the grants to study Trans-persons?
Another study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, in many ways just like the Northwestern study, reported the results of a slightly different approach to the question. In their study they also showed participants erotic videos of two men and two women and they included scenes of a man having sex with both a woman and another man.
The researchers; Jerome Cerny, a retired psychology professor at Indiana State University, and Erick Janssen, a senior scientist at the Kinsey Institute, found that bisexual men were more likely than heterosexuals or gay men to experience both genital and subjective arousal while watching both types of videos.
And this is important to know because . . . ?
Dr. Lisa Diamond, a psychology professor at the University of Utah and an expert on sexual orientation, said that the two new studies, taken together, represented a significant step toward demonstrating that bisexual men do have specific arousal patterns.
My issue is, Who cares?
Simple non-scientific interviews of many trans-individuals I've had revealed how invalidating it is when one's own family members think they’re confused or simply going through a minor stage of life or they're in total denial about their own biology is bad enough! Converging lines of university level evidence, using different methods and stimuli, only gives the scientific community the confidence to say this is something real.
We queers already know it! This is merely our tax dollars hard at work!
The new studies are totally absent of any bi-sexual females but the Northwestern study included 100 men! These men were closely split among bisexuals, heterosexuals and homosexuals. The study at the Archives of Sexual Behavior included 59 participants, among them 13 self-admitted bi-sexuals.
In fairness, the new Northwestern study was financed in part by the American Institute of Bisexuality, a group that promotes research and education regarding bi-sexuality. Still, advocates have expressed mixed feelings about the Northwestern research.
Jim Larsen, 53, a chairman of the Bisexual Organizing Project, which is a Minnesota based advocacy group, said the findings could help bisexuals still struggling to accept themselves. “It’s great that they’ve come out with affirmation that bisexuality exists,” he said. “Having said that, they’re proving what we in the community already know. It’s insulting. I think it’s unfortunate that anyone doubts an individual who says, ‘This is what I am and who I am.’”
I think I agree with Jim!
Ellyn Ruthstrom, president of the Bisexual Resource Center in Boston, echoed Mr. Larsen’s discomfort. She said, “This unfortunately reduces sexuality and relationships to just sexual stimulation,” She went on to say, “Researchers want to fit 'bi' attraction into a little box; you have to be exactly the same, attracted to men and women, and you’re bisexual. That’s nonsense. What I love is that people express their bisexuality in so many different ways.”
In a refreshing note, despite her cautious praise of the new research, Dr. Diamond noted that the kind of sexual arousal tested in the studies is only one element of sexual orientation and identity. Good for her! All studies interpret results in a rather simple manner about sexual arousal which is not quite so uncomplicated. "Monitoring genital response to erotic images in a laboratory setting cannot replicate an actual human interaction", she said. "Sexual arousal is a very complicated thing,” she added. She concluded by saying, "The real day-to-day life is extraordinarily messy and multi-factorial."
And all us cross dressing men know it can be exactly that! But I have serious reservations we'll ever see that study done using tax dollars!
A version of this article appeared in print on August 23, 2011, on page D1 of the New York edition with the headline: No Surprise for Bisexual Men: Report Indicates They Exist.
Some men. Interesting.
This finding is not likely to surprise the many bisexuals (both male and female) who have long asserted that their attraction is not limited to one sex specifically. In 2005, Northwestern released a report “with respect to sexual arousal and attraction" and said, "it remains to be demonstrated (proven) that male bisexuality actually exists.”
And to think we paid for this!
Their conclusions simply outraged the many bisexual men and women who said the report appeared to support a stereotype of bisexuality as closeted homosexuality.
So, in advancement of the facts, I'm guessing this protest by bisexuals brings to light they have notions regarding closet homosexuals and they're thought of as lowly.
Kind of like civil society in general.
In the new study, however, things would be different. They required participants to have a sexual experience with at least two people of each sex and a romantic relationship of at least three months with at least one person of each sex.
They weren't asking for too much, were they?
Both studies found that bisexuals reported subjective arousal to both sexes, and had the genital responses to match.
“Someone who is bisexual might say, ‘Well, duh!’” said Allen Rosenthal, the lead author of the new Northwestern study and a doctoral student in psychology at the university. “But this will be validating to a lot of bisexual men who had heard about the earlier work and felt that scientists were just not getting them.”
The Northwestern study is the second such study published this year to report a distinctive pattern of sexual arousal among bisexual men, again, to think we paid for this just makes me angry! What I'd like to know is where are the grants to study Trans-persons?
Another study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, in many ways just like the Northwestern study, reported the results of a slightly different approach to the question. In their study they also showed participants erotic videos of two men and two women and they included scenes of a man having sex with both a woman and another man.
The researchers; Jerome Cerny, a retired psychology professor at Indiana State University, and Erick Janssen, a senior scientist at the Kinsey Institute, found that bisexual men were more likely than heterosexuals or gay men to experience both genital and subjective arousal while watching both types of videos.
And this is important to know because . . . ?
Dr. Lisa Diamond, a psychology professor at the University of Utah and an expert on sexual orientation, said that the two new studies, taken together, represented a significant step toward demonstrating that bisexual men do have specific arousal patterns.
My issue is, Who cares?
Simple non-scientific interviews of many trans-individuals I've had revealed how invalidating it is when one's own family members think they’re confused or simply going through a minor stage of life or they're in total denial about their own biology is bad enough! Converging lines of university level evidence, using different methods and stimuli, only gives the scientific community the confidence to say this is something real.
We queers already know it! This is merely our tax dollars hard at work!
The new studies are totally absent of any bi-sexual females but the Northwestern study included 100 men! These men were closely split among bisexuals, heterosexuals and homosexuals. The study at the Archives of Sexual Behavior included 59 participants, among them 13 self-admitted bi-sexuals.
In fairness, the new Northwestern study was financed in part by the American Institute of Bisexuality, a group that promotes research and education regarding bi-sexuality. Still, advocates have expressed mixed feelings about the Northwestern research.
Jim Larsen, 53, a chairman of the Bisexual Organizing Project, which is a Minnesota based advocacy group, said the findings could help bisexuals still struggling to accept themselves. “It’s great that they’ve come out with affirmation that bisexuality exists,” he said. “Having said that, they’re proving what we in the community already know. It’s insulting. I think it’s unfortunate that anyone doubts an individual who says, ‘This is what I am and who I am.’”
I think I agree with Jim!
Ellyn Ruthstrom, president of the Bisexual Resource Center in Boston, echoed Mr. Larsen’s discomfort. She said, “This unfortunately reduces sexuality and relationships to just sexual stimulation,” She went on to say, “Researchers want to fit 'bi' attraction into a little box; you have to be exactly the same, attracted to men and women, and you’re bisexual. That’s nonsense. What I love is that people express their bisexuality in so many different ways.”
In a refreshing note, despite her cautious praise of the new research, Dr. Diamond noted that the kind of sexual arousal tested in the studies is only one element of sexual orientation and identity. Good for her! All studies interpret results in a rather simple manner about sexual arousal which is not quite so uncomplicated. "Monitoring genital response to erotic images in a laboratory setting cannot replicate an actual human interaction", she said. "Sexual arousal is a very complicated thing,” she added. She concluded by saying, "The real day-to-day life is extraordinarily messy and multi-factorial."
And all us cross dressing men know it can be exactly that! But I have serious reservations we'll ever see that study done using tax dollars!
A version of this article appeared in print on August 23, 2011, on page D1 of the New York edition with the headline: No Surprise for Bisexual Men: Report Indicates They Exist.
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Bitch Test @bitchtest.com
I took this test and scored 94! I’m a minor bitch.
According to this test I’m actually a non-bitch. My kind nature breeds jealousy throughout the real bitches that surround me. I often wonder why I’m unhappy about how my relationships are going, and I think that by giving all of the time things could go my way. Sometimes, a little selfishness is warranted.
I’m too easy-going and too much of a push over to succeed in business. My focus on pleasing everyone makes me ineffective when any conflict arises. This test tells me it’s OK to show my claws once in a while.
I show appreciation toward others by being courteous. I know how to accurately read people’s feelings but will occasionally drop a few off-handed remarks to validate my own point.
After my partner has finished with me and turned over to sleep, I often find myself sexually unsatisfied but I’m emotionally fulfilled knowing that I’ve made him very happy. According to the test, it’s not considered bitchy to discuss needs with a partner but he’ll never hear about it from me.
The friendships that I’ve created are true friends that will always be there for me. The high regard I have for my friends is usually reciprocated and my friends are honored to know such a wonderful person as myself.
When I date, I should find men who are much more receptive to me as a person. People with a low bitch score, like mine, are usually the most welcoming and compliant.
My answers resulted in my being spotlighted or focused into the following category;
I have a Pre-disposition.
My predisposition is that my being a bitch is influenced by my date of birth and the day of the week on which I was born. In Numerology this equals a life-path number of Five, or Restless. Fives are constantly looking for new opportunities and although I’m not considered bitchy, my tendency to get bored easily makes me unstable in relationships.
Wow!
The day of the week I was born also has influence and was a Wednesday, the Day of Odin. People born on a Wednesday have a tendency to sabotage relationships even if they are going well.
All I can think of to say is wow!
Among widely adopted western astrological terms my star-sign is Scorpio. Everyone accepts the fact Scorpions are jealous, resentful, and obstinate. Potentially we are very bitchy and we’re very sneaky.
Why, oh why, can’t I get a break? It goes deeper still!
In Chinese astrology my symbol is the Tiger. Tigers are very dominant and if not tempered with compassion for others, can come across as bitchy.
In Treeology, the relationship of tree characteristics to personal traits, my title is the Cypress Tree, the Faithful. This status is most interesting. Apparently, I’m extremely needy and quick-tempered, which makes me an extremely passionate lover and an extremely careless companion. In truth, it’s not that I play around, I only do what men tell me to do!
I’m quite content with life as long as I have at least one attention giving spectator, regardless of how long that lasts!
I think this explains why I have low morals!
NOTE:
The data on this page is presented within the context of the Bitch Test quiz and should be reviewed with that in mind. Please remember that this site is for entertainment purposes only and, by it's very nature, somewhat negative in comment and content. The content on this page is based upon the answers and information supplied by you.
Till they said that, they had me almost believing this!
According to this test I’m actually a non-bitch. My kind nature breeds jealousy throughout the real bitches that surround me. I often wonder why I’m unhappy about how my relationships are going, and I think that by giving all of the time things could go my way. Sometimes, a little selfishness is warranted.
I’m too easy-going and too much of a push over to succeed in business. My focus on pleasing everyone makes me ineffective when any conflict arises. This test tells me it’s OK to show my claws once in a while.
I show appreciation toward others by being courteous. I know how to accurately read people’s feelings but will occasionally drop a few off-handed remarks to validate my own point.
After my partner has finished with me and turned over to sleep, I often find myself sexually unsatisfied but I’m emotionally fulfilled knowing that I’ve made him very happy. According to the test, it’s not considered bitchy to discuss needs with a partner but he’ll never hear about it from me.
The friendships that I’ve created are true friends that will always be there for me. The high regard I have for my friends is usually reciprocated and my friends are honored to know such a wonderful person as myself.
When I date, I should find men who are much more receptive to me as a person. People with a low bitch score, like mine, are usually the most welcoming and compliant.
My answers resulted in my being spotlighted or focused into the following category;
I have a Pre-disposition.
My predisposition is that my being a bitch is influenced by my date of birth and the day of the week on which I was born. In Numerology this equals a life-path number of Five, or Restless. Fives are constantly looking for new opportunities and although I’m not considered bitchy, my tendency to get bored easily makes me unstable in relationships.
Wow!
The day of the week I was born also has influence and was a Wednesday, the Day of Odin. People born on a Wednesday have a tendency to sabotage relationships even if they are going well.
All I can think of to say is wow!
Among widely adopted western astrological terms my star-sign is Scorpio. Everyone accepts the fact Scorpions are jealous, resentful, and obstinate. Potentially we are very bitchy and we’re very sneaky.
Why, oh why, can’t I get a break? It goes deeper still!
In Chinese astrology my symbol is the Tiger. Tigers are very dominant and if not tempered with compassion for others, can come across as bitchy.
In Treeology, the relationship of tree characteristics to personal traits, my title is the Cypress Tree, the Faithful. This status is most interesting. Apparently, I’m extremely needy and quick-tempered, which makes me an extremely passionate lover and an extremely careless companion. In truth, it’s not that I play around, I only do what men tell me to do!
I’m quite content with life as long as I have at least one attention giving spectator, regardless of how long that lasts!
I think this explains why I have low morals!
NOTE:
The data on this page is presented within the context of the Bitch Test quiz and should be reviewed with that in mind. Please remember that this site is for entertainment purposes only and, by it's very nature, somewhat negative in comment and content. The content on this page is based upon the answers and information supplied by you.
Till they said that, they had me almost believing this!
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Is there something wrong with what I do?
Between the blatant Sexualization of children by Madison Avenue types and the arrest of the "hot to trot" hockey mom, I'm confused about any one seeing anything wrong in what I do.
I know I'm a homosexual which is not against the law. I've been accused of having low morals but, just like being "stupid" or "ugly", that is also not against the law. I cross dress and wear make up so I present as a slut, I don't believe that's against the law. I do these things so I might engage in NSA sex with as many men as I can and, surprisingly, that is not against many laws any longer.
If a TG/TS or GG wants to play some elaborate "hard to get" game so be it. I won't do that and I don't do that, just that simple.
As for the hot to trot hockey mom, I wouldn't want to be in her heels. Giving liquor to a minor is against the law and it's a huge "no-no" in this society, but having sex with a minor is far worse! Both have established laws prohibiting exactly that from happening.
I'm an adult homosexual man in a dress behaving naughty for another adult man. Sometimes we're in some dim lit or dirty place and we both take a chance that we'll be seen. But at least we're both consenting and both adults!
To avoid being charged as a prostitute I simply don't solicit, period!
To enhance the idea that a man can sexually score with me without me saying anything, however, I feel I must wear short skirts, bright panties out side of my modified pantyhose, allow plenty of "accidental" up-skirt looks, wear the highest heels I can still walk in, a bit too much make up and all but drench myself in perfume.
Oh yeah, I never say no.
Seriously, let's face it, most men love to get a free blow job and they'll usually take it if one is offered. Unless you're so inept that your teeth are constantly in contact with his penis most blow jobs, good and bad, end the same way. Bill and Monica did it in the Oval Office for cryin' out loud, so it's fairly natural, pretty common and it really is no big deal!
Every time I'm approached I tell the guy exactly what I am as soon as practical, in this way I avoid complications. If he accepts me we begin the dance of small talk. During our talk I make it a point to bluntly, and quietly, tell him I'll let him use my mouth like a pussy. At that point he usually doesn't care what I am.
After he's done with me I always tell him thanks.
So what?
I know I'm a homosexual which is not against the law. I've been accused of having low morals but, just like being "stupid" or "ugly", that is also not against the law. I cross dress and wear make up so I present as a slut, I don't believe that's against the law. I do these things so I might engage in NSA sex with as many men as I can and, surprisingly, that is not against many laws any longer.
If a TG/TS or GG wants to play some elaborate "hard to get" game so be it. I won't do that and I don't do that, just that simple.
As for the hot to trot hockey mom, I wouldn't want to be in her heels. Giving liquor to a minor is against the law and it's a huge "no-no" in this society, but having sex with a minor is far worse! Both have established laws prohibiting exactly that from happening.
I'm an adult homosexual man in a dress behaving naughty for another adult man. Sometimes we're in some dim lit or dirty place and we both take a chance that we'll be seen. But at least we're both consenting and both adults!
To avoid being charged as a prostitute I simply don't solicit, period!
To enhance the idea that a man can sexually score with me without me saying anything, however, I feel I must wear short skirts, bright panties out side of my modified pantyhose, allow plenty of "accidental" up-skirt looks, wear the highest heels I can still walk in, a bit too much make up and all but drench myself in perfume.
Oh yeah, I never say no.
Seriously, let's face it, most men love to get a free blow job and they'll usually take it if one is offered. Unless you're so inept that your teeth are constantly in contact with his penis most blow jobs, good and bad, end the same way. Bill and Monica did it in the Oval Office for cryin' out loud, so it's fairly natural, pretty common and it really is no big deal!
Every time I'm approached I tell the guy exactly what I am as soon as practical, in this way I avoid complications. If he accepts me we begin the dance of small talk. During our talk I make it a point to bluntly, and quietly, tell him I'll let him use my mouth like a pussy. At that point he usually doesn't care what I am.
After he's done with me I always tell him thanks.
So what?
Thursday, September 15, 2011
I just read a most excellent blog featured on T-Central
My story, however, is not exactly like that one. While I admit up-front to having attempted to take my own life many times, I failed. Like so many others, I even tried to go “straight” for the sake of my biological family and society.
I failed there as well ... miserably!
I’m not saying we do not have choices but, and it might very well just be my own thinking but, I feel I never had the luxury of a real choice. In my mind I was simply born a certain way and that was the card I was dealt. I’m sure you’re well aware of the cliche; born a girl in some boys body, but that’s the way I felt. That was the way I was.
Society just so happens to preserve the notion that I, and people like me, will never - that’s an absolute, I know - ever have any kind of choice. It comes down to us, or me, against societal thoughts and impressions. A tall order to be sure, not to mention a rough row.
I do have confidence, I’ve been told I pass and I know I’m not alone. I've had plenty of dates and I've joined a number of support groups and thank my lucky stars they’re there. Unfortunately, my dates don't always call me back (regardless of how it goes for them!) and the support groups do me no good when I wish to be a female in public.
The most casual act of grocery shopping as a female sometimes let’s me be seen as just another queer wearing make up, a dress and heels. I always get a few casual looks, even the check out boy or girl always smiles hard at me. Sometimes I get a few snickers or an out loud laugh along with some finger pointing, but always I’m talked about, usually in whispers.
In fairness, I can make it so when most people look at me they’re not all that sure of what they see!
The love from my children is not forthcoming in any way, they are products of a shared parenting life and one of us critically hates what I am. It would seem that while it’s OK to be gay today, it’s not OK if we’re talking about your man and he also insists that he wears make up and a dress!
I managed to hold onto a bit of my retirement, my ex-wife took most of it in alimony during the divorce. A double edged sword is the fact that my children do not know why I left home. When I asked them (I was in male drab of course) they told me they were simply told I abandoned them. Nice!
Apparently, I was not worth the effort to even make up a story about different ideals, conflicting political views, or even simple unexplained irreconcilable differences. In my mind, anything would’ve been preferable to plain abandonment. Again this was the card I was dealt.
Today, I’m a totally uninhibited woman, the life I led has been a huge help to me in that way.
And yes, I have sex with any man who remotely looks at me in that “special” way. My life insurance is up to date and my kids are the annotated beneficiaries.
I failed there as well ... miserably!
I’m not saying we do not have choices but, and it might very well just be my own thinking but, I feel I never had the luxury of a real choice. In my mind I was simply born a certain way and that was the card I was dealt. I’m sure you’re well aware of the cliche; born a girl in some boys body, but that’s the way I felt. That was the way I was.
Society just so happens to preserve the notion that I, and people like me, will never - that’s an absolute, I know - ever have any kind of choice. It comes down to us, or me, against societal thoughts and impressions. A tall order to be sure, not to mention a rough row.
I do have confidence, I’ve been told I pass and I know I’m not alone. I've had plenty of dates and I've joined a number of support groups and thank my lucky stars they’re there. Unfortunately, my dates don't always call me back (regardless of how it goes for them!) and the support groups do me no good when I wish to be a female in public.
The most casual act of grocery shopping as a female sometimes let’s me be seen as just another queer wearing make up, a dress and heels. I always get a few casual looks, even the check out boy or girl always smiles hard at me. Sometimes I get a few snickers or an out loud laugh along with some finger pointing, but always I’m talked about, usually in whispers.
In fairness, I can make it so when most people look at me they’re not all that sure of what they see!
The love from my children is not forthcoming in any way, they are products of a shared parenting life and one of us critically hates what I am. It would seem that while it’s OK to be gay today, it’s not OK if we’re talking about your man and he also insists that he wears make up and a dress!
I managed to hold onto a bit of my retirement, my ex-wife took most of it in alimony during the divorce. A double edged sword is the fact that my children do not know why I left home. When I asked them (I was in male drab of course) they told me they were simply told I abandoned them. Nice!
Apparently, I was not worth the effort to even make up a story about different ideals, conflicting political views, or even simple unexplained irreconcilable differences. In my mind, anything would’ve been preferable to plain abandonment. Again this was the card I was dealt.
Today, I’m a totally uninhibited woman, the life I led has been a huge help to me in that way.
And yes, I have sex with any man who remotely looks at me in that “special” way. My life insurance is up to date and my kids are the annotated beneficiaries.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
What Do Men Like To Hear?
I read this article the other day entitled, “What Do Men Like To Hear?” It was posted on June 24, 2011, by YML Staff. One of the commentors to the article mentioned what happened to spell-check? Lmao, as I read on I wondered the same thing! And to think this person gets paid to write. But I don’t wish to cast aspersions, I don't wish to insult, and I digress.
I realize the fact that a man wants his woman to see all of his good parts and appreciate him for them. If your date is a true loser and really far from being intelligent, praise and appreciate him for his one manly quality, his cock. Regardless if he makes lots of mistakes or has no redeeming graces, there is no limit to encouraging a man.
Tell him lies if need be, we all have flaws.
If you’re approached by a total ‘loser’ who is berating you at the top of his lungs, tell management or simply leave. He’ll find someone who will appreciate him for the qualities he has. If you can’t say he’s a good person, then he probably isn’t.
Usually praising any guy positively impacts on his ego. We’re the person he’s asking to give him sex and I think we should simply as a form of encouragement for both of us. Besides, if we don’t do it there’s usually another T-girl who will, and she might even enjoy being humiliated and dis-respected in public. He’s the superior to her inferior. You control how to live your life, you decide what you’re willing to put up with and what your not. Hold on to that thought!
I also read the book, “The Surrendered Wife” by Laura Doyle, and it’s well worth the read. You’ll quickly find out how and why men behave the way they do and learn how to stop it, if you wish. While the book presents many insights about how to obtain the intimacy you crave, it can also be a guide for bed-hopping Transvestites.
Not once does it talk about the woman as deserving any respect or encouragement.
It’s seems very controversial but claims to have transformed thousands of relationships, bringing women romance and intimacy. Just like millions of women, Transvestites want there situation to be better also. But, as Laura Doyle writes, she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful and ambitious, he instead withdrew. The result was she became lonely and exhausted, but, she admits, she was controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do and how to do it.
Sound familiar? Look as pretty as you can, be as feminine as possible and wait.
When she finally surrendered control she says something magical happened. The union she always dreamed of reappeared and the man who had wooed her was back.
The underlying principle of The Surrendered Wife is simple: The control women wield at work and with children must be left at the front door of any relationship in order to gain sexual intimacy. The only difference here is that Transvestites usually use back doors!
The Surrendered Wife is a step-by-step guide that teaches women how to give up unnecessary control and responsibility. How to express their needs while respecting their husband's choices. How to resist the temptation to criticize, belittle or dismiss their husbands and comply with him in every aspect of the marriage - from sexual demands to financial needs ... and maybe a little more.
Transvestites don’t usually expect to find husbands, they usually take great pains to simply look passable and get sexed. A Long Term Relationship (LTR) can be quite nice to land of course.
A man does not need to show and give me respect no matter what. Just let me get him hard once in a while and take his climax, it pays off very well in the end. Ironically, the bible say’s there’s power in my tongue. If they only knew just how much!
It’s easy to make a man fall in love with you: just say, “Its not yours” or “I think we should date other people” or “No matter what happens, I won’t ask you for alimony.” You might want to tell him these things as you hand him your panties. We Transvestites usually just say; “I’ve got to go to the store to pick up more anal-eaze and the fridge is filled with Coronas.” Trust me, this will make you golden.
This is a very old joke but it fits this situation:
I came into a new company as a director and had to fill an open position. One individual who was to report to me had been kicked around by people for quite a while, he obviously had low self esteem. He had a wife that would call him at work and yell at him for different things. You could actually hear her yelling over the phone! Well, I gave this guy some encouragement, I made him feel good about himself and then told him I knew he could do the job. I gave it to him. He became a superstar literally over night.
Ladies, the things your men can do with merely guttural encouragement is absolutely significant. I’m sure most women don’t do this for their husbands or boyfriends near enough and I have to admit, I like it that way. It makes what I do as a low moral transvestite easier.
It’s really good for us to appreciate our men, even when they don’t possess the qualities we’d like, but there must be some unique thing in him. Find that thing and use it to build up the other qualities. You’ll have much success.
Many people tell me I have zero good qualities and I need to take a good hard look at myself. The facts are, I’m going to keep on trolling and taking it as it comes. I don’t see society changing in my lifetime and I think I do have good if not great qualities!
I realize the fact that a man wants his woman to see all of his good parts and appreciate him for them. If your date is a true loser and really far from being intelligent, praise and appreciate him for his one manly quality, his cock. Regardless if he makes lots of mistakes or has no redeeming graces, there is no limit to encouraging a man.
Tell him lies if need be, we all have flaws.
If you’re approached by a total ‘loser’ who is berating you at the top of his lungs, tell management or simply leave. He’ll find someone who will appreciate him for the qualities he has. If you can’t say he’s a good person, then he probably isn’t.
Usually praising any guy positively impacts on his ego. We’re the person he’s asking to give him sex and I think we should simply as a form of encouragement for both of us. Besides, if we don’t do it there’s usually another T-girl who will, and she might even enjoy being humiliated and dis-respected in public. He’s the superior to her inferior. You control how to live your life, you decide what you’re willing to put up with and what your not. Hold on to that thought!
I also read the book, “The Surrendered Wife” by Laura Doyle, and it’s well worth the read. You’ll quickly find out how and why men behave the way they do and learn how to stop it, if you wish. While the book presents many insights about how to obtain the intimacy you crave, it can also be a guide for bed-hopping Transvestites.
Not once does it talk about the woman as deserving any respect or encouragement.
It’s seems very controversial but claims to have transformed thousands of relationships, bringing women romance and intimacy. Just like millions of women, Transvestites want there situation to be better also. But, as Laura Doyle writes, she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful and ambitious, he instead withdrew. The result was she became lonely and exhausted, but, she admits, she was controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do and how to do it.
Sound familiar? Look as pretty as you can, be as feminine as possible and wait.
When she finally surrendered control she says something magical happened. The union she always dreamed of reappeared and the man who had wooed her was back.
The underlying principle of The Surrendered Wife is simple: The control women wield at work and with children must be left at the front door of any relationship in order to gain sexual intimacy. The only difference here is that Transvestites usually use back doors!
The Surrendered Wife is a step-by-step guide that teaches women how to give up unnecessary control and responsibility. How to express their needs while respecting their husband's choices. How to resist the temptation to criticize, belittle or dismiss their husbands and comply with him in every aspect of the marriage - from sexual demands to financial needs ... and maybe a little more.
Transvestites don’t usually expect to find husbands, they usually take great pains to simply look passable and get sexed. A Long Term Relationship (LTR) can be quite nice to land of course.
A man does not need to show and give me respect no matter what. Just let me get him hard once in a while and take his climax, it pays off very well in the end. Ironically, the bible say’s there’s power in my tongue. If they only knew just how much!
It’s easy to make a man fall in love with you: just say, “Its not yours” or “I think we should date other people” or “No matter what happens, I won’t ask you for alimony.” You might want to tell him these things as you hand him your panties. We Transvestites usually just say; “I’ve got to go to the store to pick up more anal-eaze and the fridge is filled with Coronas.” Trust me, this will make you golden.
This is a very old joke but it fits this situation:
I came into a new company as a director and had to fill an open position. One individual who was to report to me had been kicked around by people for quite a while, he obviously had low self esteem. He had a wife that would call him at work and yell at him for different things. You could actually hear her yelling over the phone! Well, I gave this guy some encouragement, I made him feel good about himself and then told him I knew he could do the job. I gave it to him. He became a superstar literally over night.
Ladies, the things your men can do with merely guttural encouragement is absolutely significant. I’m sure most women don’t do this for their husbands or boyfriends near enough and I have to admit, I like it that way. It makes what I do as a low moral transvestite easier.
It’s really good for us to appreciate our men, even when they don’t possess the qualities we’d like, but there must be some unique thing in him. Find that thing and use it to build up the other qualities. You’ll have much success.
Many people tell me I have zero good qualities and I need to take a good hard look at myself. The facts are, I’m going to keep on trolling and taking it as it comes. I don’t see society changing in my lifetime and I think I do have good if not great qualities!
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